Enchantment Oct 18, 2020 Number 29 – Hook On


They are speaking in quiet, respectful tones. My maternal grandmother bends over the bed and strokes the thin pieces of wool that are lined up there. A paper sketch showing leaves in a circle crinkles near by, and my mother encourages me to come closer.

“Do you like these colors?” They call out from on high because I am only three.

“Yes,” I say and I think in that moment my color preferences for life are set.
“Colors of the fall,” Grandmother says. “The wools for this hooked rug will be hand-dyed.”

She is making a rug for me because I am her namesake by way of Margaret. They say the finished piece will be the pride of my very own house one day. Thoughts of being an adult are too big, but I do think about stretching the colors out between my twin beds sometime soon.

My mother says, “This is a rug for our house until you grow up, then you will have it in your own home.”

I hear that my father will letter a piece of embroidery for the underside of the rug. He has a beautiful hand, practiced from years of working as an architectural draftsman.


Going to my grandfather’s office to watch Daddy draw blueprints was fantastical during preschool days. Those memories are a relic of pre-technology when structural design plans were drawn by hand, erased and redrawn to perfection.

After about a year Grandmother’s time commitment to the rug was served, the artful elements spun into gold. Grandmother and Granddaddy delivered it to our ranch style house on Frances Square in Tupelo. The house was a simple structure with a magnificent oak in the side yard.

I was waiting in the swing that Daddy suspended from the tree when they drove into the driveway. For some reason I remember kicking my new school loafers, black suede with leather fringe tops, through the leaves as I followed the white haired couple bedazzled in blues into our living room.

They unfurled the family treasure. We all sighed at the sight of hooked leaves underfoot.

My Grandfather kicked the corner over with his block of a shoe and there is was – documentation. Grandmother and I were entwined forever in Daddy’s strong script. She gave me a squeeze.

Rug hooker Margaret Quinn Griffith

Though she lived another 25 years, we never spoke of the rug again. It drifted around my parents’ home until I married and then another ceremony occurred.

“Here it is,” mother said after she escorted the rug back to Mississippi where I lived at the time. With arms akimbo, she kicked the corner over for memory sake.

Rumi said, “Let the beauty of what we love be what we do.” Handmade is a mediation for the future. A prayer in every stitch. It affirms a point in the shadowy future where people can surrender to their ancestors and collect the message in a bottle.

How about commitment? How about trust and familial pride? How about enchantment? Tokens of character shine out from the handmade to untold generations like pristine salutations.

So after decades of real life underfoot and under-paw in my “own home,” I rolled the frayed rug up and placed it on the shelf. Later when the internet ramped up, I researched hooked rug repair. Such artistry is rare – it too is passed down like the privilege of obvious choice that it is.

I made contact with a 4th generation rug hooker Stephanie Allen-Krauss at Green Mountain Hooked Rugs in Vermont. After reviewing photography of the rug’s damage, she accepted our artifact for repair. I packaged it up, mailed it off and waited. And then waited some more.

In the meantime, did I say that we named one of our daughters Margaret (Quinn) as the next namesake for my Grandmother who hooked the rug? I internalized hopes that certain heirlooms would connect to story and name as they did for me.

Still I’m not one to insist on past traditions. I tether such dreams lightly; it’s the only way to insure their purity if they should occur. Happily the idea that the story would continue presented itself when daughter Margaret (Quinn) named her girl Margaret.

Imagine the synchronicity years later around little Margaret’s third birthday when I received an email from Stephanie. The rug was repaired. It had been a challenge, but she accepted it because of its particular beauty, and no doubt because the Daddy-documented embroidery on the back would take it into the future.

My daughter’s enthusiasm for the “Rug of Margaret” tied the story up into a bow. She is about to move into a new house where she has claimed wall space for its exhibition. The embroidered story will be presented on the outside.

Quinn took to the rug like she personally knew in this lifetime her great grandmother. The art of gifting handwork is a love she has made her own and so the thread stretches still.

Will little Margaret pick up the strand?

Growing up with family stories on display is reassurance that whatever life brings, we can sally forth and be comforted by beauty. My expectations are that her love of textiles will blossom, if not as income then as a hobby.

Potential paths in life are marked by multiple threads. All we have to do is follow the colors.